Thanks In All Seasons

Last night I shared parts of this poem / reflection

with a Bereavement Support Group:

There are no more pictures to be taken

But there are memories to be cherished.

For that, I am thankful.

There is a missing chair at the table

But the circle of family gathers close.

For that, I am thankful.

The stillness remains

But the sadness is smaller.

For that, I am thankful.

The calendar still turns, the holidays still appearing

And they still cost too much . . . but I am still here.

For that, I am thankful.

Love was once, and still is, a part of my being

For that, I am living – I am living

And for that, I am thankful.

Like the psalms, we are honest to face the changes,

even during the past year, and the harsh ones that will

remain. While retaining gratitude for the much more

that we have. And the strength and hope that helps us

continue. And love to celebrate. Even if in a quieter or

smaller way.

Some suggestions for those for whom holidays are

different this year:

1. Consider what personal / family traditions you want to

continue, and which you may want to change, at least

this time.

2. Prepare emotionally, physically and spiritually,

including with healthy daily habits, and prayer with

some journaling.

3. Recognize your limits, along with what is best for

others you will be gathering with.

4. Find ways to share and invite memories, including

humorous ones, of someone who is not here this year.

5. Consider a tradition (such as an Advent Wreath) that

incorporates appreciative memories as well as faith.

6. Find a way to give in a personal way, to another in the

family, to a lonely friend, or to those in need.

Thank God (in all seasons), no matter what happens.

This is the way God wants you who belong to Christ

Jesus to live. (1 Thessalonians 5, The Message version)