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An Emptiness Full of Promise
Yesterday I found myself in the living room of a 95 year-old hospice patient, sitting comfortably and alert on her sofa. Forgetful but clear thinking. Eleanor treasures memories of years of Sunday School teaching and singing in her Presbyterian church choir. Daughter Sheryl was home from cooking at a school cafeteria. Tired at times between work and shoveling snow (recently) and caring for her mom. With a son she is concerned for, who cannot tell where he is b

Dick Sharber
Apr 22 min read


Is This a Dark Night of the Soul?
A book from Pastor Bob Breckenridge’s “book table” that I’m reading for the second time is The Dark Night of the Soul by psychiatrist Gerald May. He clarifies the “dark night” as not necessarily a time of pain or despair, but of liberation that takes place in hidden, mysterious ways . He begins by saying: “When people speak of going through a dark night of the soul, they usually mean they’re experiencing bad things. . . I must confess that I am no longer very good at telli

Dick Sharber
Mar 62 min read


Annual Report
I’m thankful for another year with such a strong and sweet church family. Our deacons and I mostly look back on continuing our mainstays fruitfully: Worship has been warmly responded to, once again featuring music of our Praise Team that enhances the theme and message so memorably. While our Trustees kept our building in excellent shape. Our 9:30 Sunday School / Bible study featured Forgiving What You Can’t Forget and Ephesians before the first season

Dick Sharber
Feb 52 min read


Ringing in the New
As the clock strikes midnight on December 31, some cheer or kiss or use noisemakers to celebrate a new year. Others take a more acted-out step to invite change: cleaning house, to avoid carrying old year’s dirt into the new year. Opening doors and windows to let out the old. Looking for something more graphic? In Ecuador photos of old memories are burned before midnight. In Denmark it is considered good luck and friendship to break dishes and plates on the fr

Dick Sharber
Jan 42 min read


Signs of Christmas
Not far from where I grew up in Delaware is the northeast corner town of Claymont. Where a tradition of the past generation started on a slow news day in 1993. When a local newspaper photographer captured an image of a wild fir tree growing out of the cracked pavement of Philadelphia Pike. Neighbors and motorists in passing had adorned it with a few modest ornaments. The photo was dubbed “the Christmas weed” in the headline. And did the 90s equivalent of going viral. Unfo

Dick Sharber
Dec 3, 20252 min read


Thanks In All Seasons
Last night I shared parts of this poem / reflection with a Bereavement Support Group: There are no more pictures to be taken But there are memories to be cherished. For that, I am thankful. There is a missing chair at the table But the circle of family gathers close. For that, I am thankful. The stillness remains But the sadness is smaller. For that, I am thankful. The calendar still turns, the holidays still appearing And they still cost too much . . . but I am still here. F

Dick Sharber
Nov 3, 20252 min read


Closer to the Center
Pastor / author John Ortberg raises an old question in a new way. Just what makes us “Jesus / Church” people who we are? First, he...

Dick Sharber
Oct 5, 20252 min read


Recovery Steps
Success over addiction in any form is supported by overall healthy spiritual growth

Dick Sharber
Sep 2, 20252 min read


Final Exam
Before the school year fades from memory, how about an end-of-semester test? Don’t worry, it’s open book. And also, your score won’t go...

Dick Sharber
Jun 30, 20252 min read


Which Way Should I Go?
This month marks the biggest change in Susie’s life in over twenty years – as she retires from teaching (8th grade earth science). The...

Dick Sharber
Jun 3, 20252 min read


Gardening for the Soul
Yesterday I was checking on a lady who had lost her mother a few months earlier. She had been grieving deeply, but noted she was doing...

Dick Sharber
May 5, 20252 min read


For Later and For Now
Christ’s victory over death means many things for us. What better proof of life after death , that the resurrection provides? What...

Dick Sharber
Mar 31, 20252 min read


Prayers for a Lenten Journey
The season leading to Easter has traditionally had simple themes: following Jesus through prayer and reflection, renunciation and...

Dick Sharber
Mar 9, 20252 min read


Annual Report
Give thanks in all circumstances . And how much more when the love in our congregation keeps flowing, when deeply rooted faith guides us,...

Dick Sharber
Feb 1, 20252 min read


Fear and Faith
Hopeful for the new year? Hopeful about a new direction, or challenge (or whatever is new in your life)? Our attitude depends partly on...

Dick Sharber
Jan 6, 20252 min read


Good News Beyond Church Doors
Who observes Christmas in our country? About nine-in-ten Americans (92%) as well as a big majority (81%) of non-Christians in the US ...

Dick Sharber
Dec 3, 20242 min read


State of the State (ABCNJ)
The Annual Session of American Baptist Churches of New Jersey took place early in October. As usual, the big room was packed – an...

Dick Sharber
Nov 8, 20242 min read


Faith in Normal Language
How many people have you led to Christ, using the “Roman Road”?

Dick Sharber
Sep 29, 20242 min read


Divine Initiative/Human Freedom
Meeting a sick elderly man in the hospital with his son bedside, the mood was bleak. The patient’s future appeared likely to continue...

Dick Sharber
Sep 13, 20242 min read


The Elephant (or Donkey) in the Room
Thinking politically. We can hardly get away from it this season! So where do we start? We hope to have our politics thoroughly...

Dick Sharber
Jul 4, 20242 min read
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